Are you ok? I'm just checking in because I've coached A LOT of women this week around relationship conflict.
Being in conflict with your husband, wife or partner feels awful. Especially if the conflict is more of the same as before.
If that's you today, this is for you.
You are not the situation you are in.
Your thoughts and your situation are separate.
If you are upset and you think it’s because of the situation you are trapped.
The only way you can get your freedom is by being able to separate your thinking from the situation.
This will give you immediate clarity.
You can’t always change your situation, you can't change your husband, or your partner, the words she said or the actions he's taken.
But you can change the way you think.
Why should you?
Because when you fight with the situation, as Byron Katie would say, "you are in a fight you will never win."
Your thinking is what is keeping you bound. I know that might feel hard to take, but it's the truth.
There are thoughts that will free you, even if you can't find them yet. Trust me they are there.
Your thoughts are creating your suffering and pain. Not the situation.
I know that's not what your best friend would say, but it's the truth and the way out.
I have a way of teaching you how to do this and it will probably change your life.
If you feel beaten by your situation like you can't win. Come and talk to me.
This is what I do.
WIth love Maree